I am the youngest of three baby-boomer brothers. When
we were growing up, the Smothers Brothers were popular, and we would
occasionally joke about one of their routines in which the younger Tommy
Smothers would lament to the older Dick, “Mom always liked you best!” In our case, the mantle of “favored-one”
fell not to my oldest brother Pete, but to the next in line, Nick.
In stark contrast to Tommy Smothers, we say this about
Nick with not even a hint of bitterness
or jealousy. It was simply a fact. After all, what’s not to like? Nick was always the best behaved and the most
compliant. He cleaned up after himself,
did his chores, never left things half-done, and was always ready to serve his
parents. He was most likely the one who
started the practice of serving our mother coffee and toast in bed on weekend
mornings, which kind of obligated the rest of us the follow suit.